HOW TO: Be one helluva house guest

A good house guest, knocks first! (Image courtesy of: PopArtMachine.com)

If you’re planning on getting out of your city to stay with family or friends this holiday please bear in mind this season is stressful! Here is a checklist on how to solidify your seasonal invitation send out:

1. DO show up with a gift for the host.  I recommend a nice bottle of wine, complete with a wine holder decorated for the season.  (Click here to see what I’m referring to).  Or if you’re coming in from out of town, bring an item that you can only find in your city.

2.  DO make it a habit to make your own bed, do your own laundry, wash your own dishes (and maybe everyone elses).  No one likes a slobby Sue!

3.  DO show your appreciation for your host by cooking a meal, fixing something that may be broken or straightening up their house.  Be sure, however, that what you do abide by the unwritten rules of the house.

4. DO try to make plans with other friends or family in town.  This will give your host and their housemates some time to breathe and accomplish some of their own errands.

5.  DON’T overstay your welcome.  Specify the duration of your visit to your host multiple times before your visit.  Print out your scheduled flight or bus itinerary and unless the weather changes your plans – stick to it!

6.  DON’T expect your host to entertain you for the entire duration of your visit.  Bring books to read.  Or extra spending cash to take day trips into the city.  In those circumstances, don’t expect them to drive you anywhere either.

7.  DON’T confuse this as a vacation!  Granted, you are taking a trip which  is different from your regular routine but don’t expect to be pampered.  Just because you host is providing your housing accomodations, doesn’t mean that entertainment, maid and culinary services are included.

8.  DO take note of the unwritten house rules (i.e. what time everyone wakes up and goes to bed, how long they take in the shower, whether or not they prefer the toilet seat up or down, etc).  Follow them!  If you’re unsure, ask before you do it.

9. DO be on your best behaviour! A minor argument can get you kicked out.

10. DO send a thank you note upon your return home.  My suggestion: develop and frame a picture you had taken with your hosts during your visit.  Send it to them within a month of your return with a thank you card!

Enjoy your visit!

By: Sarina Adamo